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To say that we become different people,
that we"remake"ourselves as we read more, talk more, and write more,is
simply a dramatic way of saying that the sentences which become true of
us by virtue of such activities are often more important to us than the
sentenvce which become true when we drink more, earn more, and so on
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The biggest conversation on PMTH these last two weeks is far from over. We have been discussing the pros and cons of online therapy all week long. Our own John Söderlund inspired this conversation and he plans to put together a more extended account of our discussion for the journal New Therapist, where he is the editor. Online therapy has been a controversial topic on PMTH. The conversation started with a number of people questioning the merits of online therapy. Maryhelen Snyder, for example, described a relevant discussion in her office that very morning with a client. Snyder was leaving on vacation and the possibility of phone sessions came up. However, with just a little inquiry it became clear that the client felt this would be insufficient. She felt the therapist's physical presence was extremely important. A number of others here on PMTH seemed similarly concerned. They noted: In online therapy one doesn't have the face-to-face body language to read the client -- and that's a critical deficiency. Yet I notice from the the APA report that many people who make the point that online therapy doesn't have body language cues are themselves likely to go ahead and try online therapy. They point to the fact that online therapy may be better than none at all and that people in rural areas, people who are deaf, people unwilling to disclose face-to-face, may all profit some online work. The fact that some clients want only face-to-face therapy should not be grounds for denying online therapy to those who want it. But, still, there is this loss of being able to read expressions and body language. What would people in online therapy be getting? Maybe online therapy isn't traditional therapy online. Some people said: Maybe we should call it something else. Riet Samuels, for example, suggested we call it 'facilitation' or 'exploration', or even the Postmodern Online Cafe? But, of course, whatever we call it, that is just the name for the packaging. The real question is: What will we really do online? No one was sure. I know, I said to myself, "I'll create an imaginary case and let people respond as therapists. Then maybe we can get a feel for how to develop this process. So that's what I did. I called it the case of Jack and Jill. Jill was a woman who complained bitterly that her husband was insufficiently loving to their two boys. Jack agreed he was not very loving, but, he told us, he couldn't help it. This was just his nature. So, being therapists here, many people asked questions. There was a little exploration by Riet Samuels, Cathy Birkett, Val Lewis and Nick Drury, and through this discussion we we figured out (but remember this was all based on a fictional case) that Jill's father was serving as the model of the affectionate father and Jack didn't want to compete with that -- well, it was something like that. This discussion worked fine for a while, but the contributions to the therapy roleplay came in such a flood that I'm afraid we all became confused. So many therapists! So many questions! And the clients were responding to all of the theapists independently. We just couldn't keep track. So Val Lewis suggested we needed guidelines to structure the conversation. (Ha! I'm the one who needed the guidelines. I felt I was searching around in the dark doing this one.) Then, Lynn
Hoffman, made a pivitol comment when she said
At this point the conversation changed direction. We all seemed to spontaneously ditch the case of Jack and Jill and begin to philosophize about how to exploit the new online medium. It is not only that we want to call it something else, you see. We want it to be something else, something that exploits the medium, something other than just face-to-face therapy in a less good setting. But what? What do we want to do? David Haddad suggested we consider "online supervision." That is one theme we are exploring. But, stimulated by Hoffman's provocative question, I ask myself, "How will we make supervision exploit the online medium?" Will we just be doing supervision in a a setting that is less good? After all supervision, too, can depend on reading the body langauge ofthe therapist supervised. Therapists have issues, too, that come out in supervision. (Maybe my psychoanalytic background is coming out here.) But what else? Then, Inventive Katherine Levine presented a radical suggestion that I am playing with at this moment. It has to do with therapists roleplaying their clients and then being supervised by others playing the therapist. It's all too fuzzy to explain very much, but I am talking backchannel with a few people who are planning to start this thought experiment, a different kind of thought experiment than I presented with Jack and Jill. So, in the end I must leave you hanging. These new ideas are still
unfinished. But watch for more articles on this topic in PMTH NEWS,
and, watch, especially, for an article by John
Söderlund, on our discussion in the New
Therapist. And, if you have an idea you would like us to
consider, click here and
drop me a line.
I want to call your attention to a brand new website that has been put together PMTH subscriber, Lluis Botella. We know Botella on PMTH for his thoughtful contributions on a range of topics and for his interest in a George Kelly variety of constructivism..(Do a search for "roleplaying" on the new website you link to above when you click on George Kelly's name. Do you think that a Kelly enthusiast would have something to contribute to our discussions about online therapy?) Now, here's an association: If you know anything about Kelly's
theories, then you know Kelly proposed something he called REP therapy,
a kind of roleplaying based on the client being given a script. Maybe,
with this background Botella can contribute some ideas to our radical new
online
roleplaying.
On a typical day, there are about 25 posts on PMTH, some long, some
short. But some days are relatively quiet. On a recent
quiet day I wrote the list saying,
I think Nick
Drury's note captured the spirit of the responding posts:
So, on a quiet day, PMTHers are off doing the things they put off all
week. I must admit, I got my laundry done that day, too.
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A few weeks ago I asked PMTHers if they would like to invite visitors to PMTH. The hope was that we could find interesting authors to come here to help us study their works and allow us to ask them questions. There was a general enthusiasm for this idea, and the first person to follow through on this has been Jerry Schaffer,who happened to know Richard Rorty. After a little negotiation Schaffer was able to make some arrangements with Richard Rorty that Rorty found satisfactory. And so it is that today Rorty provides PMTH with a copy of an unpublished paper. Each PMTH subscriber will be given the address for this paper. (If you have missed this, please do write me by clicking here.) The idea is that those of us with an interest will read this paper, discuss it among ourselves, and come up with some questions to ask. At that point, we will invite him to join us (temporarily?) in discussion or simply answer questions that Schaffer forwards to him. It will be up to him. So, we will have a new document to read. Let me tell you that I have already read it, and it is not only delightfully clear and well written, especially for a philosophy paper, but it is very relevant to our concerns here. Here, let me give you Schaffer's introduction to Rorty's paper and then
I'll add a few more words myself.
What could be more relevant to the therapy project than this? It reminds me of a recent conversation on PMTH that was initiated by Val Lewis. Lewis argued that there are people who are naturally wise without any kind of training. And suggested that she may have met a few such people. Well, maybe so, or maybe these wise people are trained by life, and by a different life pattern than "less wise" folk. If so, then perhaps they are trained to relate in a way that Rorty suggests the wise person relates to others. This is a question we might consider. If we therapists are stuck with a limited inherited wisdom that cannot be modified, then things are as they are, and there is little we cando about it. But, if we can enhance this natural wisdom by following the guidelines that Rorty suggests, then, ... we will surely want to read his paper carefully. But first, we need to understand more clearly what Rorty means. And, here are a few questions I think we should address. Is "edifying conversation" that Rorty talks about similar to "paralogy" as we have come to think of it? Modified to remove the agonistics that Lyotard thought was the foundation of paralogy? Also, why is it that Rorty has elected not to call himself "postmodern" in spite of the fact that many others call him this? In PMTH lingo, he certainly seems postmodern to me. Does he to you? Also, as you might imagine, given the title of this paper, Rorty talks here of how he sees western discourse having been influenced by the philosopher Spinoza. He tells the story of how Spinoza might be seen as the transitional figure between a realism and the kind of philosophy that not concerned with using language to represent,or capture, a Godlike view of Truth that realism imagines to be hiding behind our illusions. Some of you might also want to ask Rorty questions about this story of Spinoza and the giant change he seems to have triggered in Western philosophy. Read future editions of PMTH NEWS to see how subscribers here address
and evaluate questions such as these.
If you're thinking of reading Richard Rorty a bit, you might like to
glance at a few of his quotable passages, especially, perhaps, passages
in other texts that are related to the paper he has given us to read, the
paper on the love of wisdom. .
In the paper of Rorty's we will be reading, he talks about the love
of wisdom, but he talks about it also in his classic book
Kant,
Descartes,
Husserl
and
Russell
are
examples of systematic philosophers. Wittgenstein,
Nietzshe,
Heidegger
are
examples of edifying philosophers.
Edifying philosphers do not talk about the way things are so
much as making space for something new. As such, one fails to understand
their work if one thinks of it as entirely their's as merely a view of
how things are. It is a contribution in the course of the great human
conversation.
Edifying philosophy is something we can all participate in if we pursue
the love of wisom. The edifying philosphers can be seen as your "conversational
partners." (p.372.
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